irreticent@lemmy.world to Memes@lemmy.ml · 11 months agoIt's their legacylemmy.worldimagemessage-square18fedilinkarrow-up14
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minus-squareTrickDacy@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·11 months agoI think the problem isn’t the “threat” but the implied “I couldn’t possibly care less why you’re crying”
minus-squareA Phlaming Phoenix@lemm.eelinkfedilinkarrow-up1·11 months agoYes, it’s invalidation of feelings followed by the infliction of physical violence to make the abuser feel better.
minus-squareTrickDacy@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·11 months agoI got hit many times. A few times it was physically a little bit bad, but typically I was more upset that my parents had “turned” on me to the point that they would even want to do such a thing. A lot of it is mentally abusive :(
I think the problem isn’t the “threat” but the implied “I couldn’t possibly care less why you’re crying”
Yes, it’s invalidation of feelings followed by the infliction of physical violence to make the abuser feel better.
I got hit many times. A few times it was physically a little bit bad, but typically I was more upset that my parents had “turned” on me to the point that they would even want to do such a thing. A lot of it is mentally abusive :(